How many damages are recognized by laws and what kind of relief is given to the victim? This is not only a pure lawful issue about damage and relief but also interest balance between protection of victims right and protection of masses behavioral freedom. The characteristics of personality damage determine the difficulty in defining the damage. Chinas legislation about damage is brief, which makes definition of the damage be done by the court. The factors which affect the judge to make decision have been restricted by practice and deviated in the judges thinking. The damage varies from person to person, as a result, relief varies from person to person. Lawful thinking about damage and relief must be set up based on this.